If you find yourself constantly raising issues with your lover and they dismiss it regularly, you may be with a cheater. It’s common for cheaters to dismiss concerns using tried and tested lines. Here are some common lines cheaters use:
o You’re being paranoid
o You’re being emotional
o It wasn’t me
o I married you, what more do you want?
o It’s all in your head
o I might as well cheat, you’re always accusing me of cheating
o They are just a friend
o You are always looking for a fight
o If you keep acting like this I will find someone else
o You think to much
o You’re overthinking this
o I didn’t want to wake you up
o When I’m out there I’m thinking of you
o Hanging out with my friends makes me realize how much I love you
o I’m just a flirt
o I can’t help it, people just seem to like me
o They might want me – but I only have eyes for you
o Those people out there don’t mean anything, you’re the only one for me.
o If you were more exciting I’d include you when I go out
o You never want to go out
o You’re just jealous because I’m a social person and you aren’t
o I’m not a home body