There are many reasons for a cheater to pick fights. Stress from juggling multiple relationships can lead to conflict in the home. Fights are often used to deflect attention from the deception at hand. They may also pick fights to justify storming out of the house and taking “hours” to cool off. If you notice that you are always having fights for the slightest of reasons and whenever there is a fight they are quick to storm out of the home late at night, they may be using this as an excuse to see their secret lover. Don’t be deceived by this ploy.