If your significant other has suddenly developed a new rule: you must call them before you come by ; there might be something fishy going on. Cheaters will insist that you let them know when you are coming so they can make suer that they are never double booked. If you live with someone, this is most obvious if they want you to confirm before you return home. This also happens in the work setting, where they get upset if you drop by their office without prior warning. If they get especially angry about dropping by unannounced, you should be very concerned.
You aren’t allowed to visit unannounced
Category: Changes in Routine
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I had a shock of a life time, i had a set of keys to ma boyfriend’s apartment, so i decided to pass by his place to pick up some of my staff i needed, i opened the main door then went straight to the bedroom, i opened the bedroom door and there he was in bed with another woman? ”both naked”, but he claimed that nothing happened. he said that wowan was a friend and she was having problems with her boyfriend, so she came over to talk to him, and get some advice, then one thing lead to another. But according to him,”he was able to stop before it got too far”, so he claimed.
So we ended up being apart cos it was difficult for me to sleep in the same bed after what i saw. We tried to work things out but we didnt get far, so we broke up.
Thank you for opening dis sites, cos pple like me can open up, talk about what we are facing in daily basis and learn alot from pple like you.
thank you.