Cheating lovers will get gifts for the people they are cheating with. It’s common for them to purchase gifts in duplicate. Chocolates for their lover and an extra box for their spouse. Or a special shirt and then getting one for their spouse too. Also, when this duplicate gift giving happens, it’s generally given when something significant happens in the affair. For example – if there’s an anniversary for when the affair started, your lover may want to get his secret lover chocolates. But they figure, since they’ve purchased these for the lover, they should get some for you too. The date you get the chocolate will have no meaning to you but it will have meaning to the person sleeping with your partner. In the main relationship the gift will seem out of place, appearing for apparently no reason. Because the gift will have been for the person in the affair, the choice may not be applicable to you either. Beware if you start getting odd gifts from your lover.

Cheating costs! For men, they are often required to purchase gifts for their new loves. Finding a place to commit adultery often includes paying for hotels. Other common purchases include lingerie, alcohol, and other entertainment related expenses. If you start seeing strange purchases or unexplained purchases it might be a sign that something is awry. Also, once a person starts to shop at a particular retailer on a regular basis, they will start to receive coupons in the mail from that store. Watch out for coupons for expensive chocolates, alcohol, sexy clothing, lingerie, and jewelry stores. Note – most women aren’t the primary gift givers in a relationship. This may not be as applicable for women – although you should beware if unexplained gifts start appearing around the home.