There are products related to affairs. The most common ones are gas, eating out, hygiene, flowers, clothing, and hotels. If you think about dating, you have to spend money on gas or transportation. You will often see an increase in gas and transport expenses when an affair starts. Dining out is a big part of dating as well. When an affair starts (most likely with men) there will be increased spending on dining out. Does your man suddenly have an OpenTable.com account? Maybe something else is going on! Does your lover suddenly feel the need to spend money on taking care of themselves? This can be a sign that something else is going on as well. Look out for increased expenditure on deodorants, colognes, perfumes, scented soaps, manicure kits, pedicure kits, scented lotions, and makeup. Look out for retail purchases from department stores. Your cheating lover might be looking for new outfits to impress their new lovers with. Finally, keep an eye out for hotel expenses. Your lover might be smart enough not to charge a hotel room to their card, but someone has to provide cards for the hotel incidentals.

Very often people cheat in their daily environments. Unfortunately this often means at work, church, or school. Take note if your woman is suddenly dressing up for the most mundane of activities. Perhaps she is wearing makeup to go to the grocery store. And you also notice that the grocery store trips are taking a few hours instead of just an hour. Perhaps she starts wearing provocative outfits when going out with her friends. You should get especially concerned if she is wearing these outfits when she goes out with other people, but refuses to get dressed up to go out with you.

Women often seek attention – even if they don’t want to cheat. However attention seeking behavior can be a solid indicator that someone is looking for affection from another. The easiest way for a woman to gain attention is to dress provocatively. Be cautious if your woman has started doing this and lavishing in the attention of another.

When a person decides to cheat, they go back to square one in the dating game. A large component of that is attracting other people. In order to attract someone, you need to wear something attractive. Be aware if your partner is suddenly wearing new clothes. Also, take note if they are wearing the same clothes differently, or constantly changing clothes. Sometimes, to deflect suspicion, a partner will claim that new outfits are actually old outfits that just haven’t been worn in a long while.

For Men: you should notice if designer shirts, suits, cuff links, ear rings, and dress shoes start to appear. This is most significant when your significant other doesn’t normally dress this way.

For Women: you should notice if shorter skirts, tighter dresses, more revealing outfits, high heels, make up, and earrings start to appear. Just as with men, this is most significant when your significant other doesn’t normally dress this way.