Have you noticed an empty food container in your car after your spouse uses your car? Do you see suspicious numbers of items? Look out for two straws, large numbers of napkins, containers for food your spouse doesn’t eat, etc. If you see these things, your spouse could be going on drive thru dates with a secret lover.
Is your loved one suddenly taking working lunches all the time? Were you previously in a situation where you could spend lunches with your loved one – without warning? Be aware if your lover suddenly doesn’t want to see you during lunch time hours or becomes inaccessible during lunch. Your lover might be having lunch with someone else. Also be very suspicious if they get upset when you drop by unexpectedly for lunch or seem irritable when you do so. If you do drop by and they refuse to let you come in, or they only want to sit in your car, there might be a sign that there’s something going on.
There are products related to affairs. The most common ones are gas, eating out, hygiene, flowers, clothing, and hotels. If you think about dating, you have to spend money on gas or transportation. You will often see an increase in gas and transport expenses when an affair starts. Dining out is a big part of dating as well. When an affair starts (most likely with men) there will be increased spending on dining out. Does your man suddenly have an OpenTable.com account? Maybe something else is going on! Does your lover suddenly feel the need to spend money on taking care of themselves? This can be a sign that something else is going on as well. Look out for increased expenditure on deodorants, colognes, perfumes, scented soaps, manicure kits, pedicure kits, scented lotions, and makeup. Look out for retail purchases from department stores. Your cheating lover might be looking for new outfits to impress their new lovers with. Finally, keep an eye out for hotel expenses. Your lover might be smart enough not to charge a hotel room to their card, but someone has to provide cards for the hotel incidentals.
When a man is wooing a woman, it’s very common for him to take her out to eat. It’s unlikely for a woman to bring her secret lover to her home, especially if she lives with a man. If she doesn’t like with him, she may bring her secret lover home for some good home cooking. If she suddenly loses appetite all the time or starts to gain weight for no reason, perhaps she is eating with another. Since a woman is more likely to watch her weight, she may be more inclined to eat less when she is with you, or claim that she is not hungry. In some cases, she will still eat with you and risk the unexpected weight gain. Alternatively she may still eat with you buy double her exercise. So be aware if a woman gains weight for no reason. This situation is less likely to occur with women than with men.
When a man is wooing a woman, it’s very common for him to go on dates with his mistress. Most dates involve food of some kind. In some cases they may be eating out, or his new woman may be cooking good food. The old phrase still holds true: the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Therefore it’s very common for two newly romantically related people to partake in good eating. Part of this is because eating makes a person feel good. Also, what better way to justify the consumption of alcohol, than to pair it with food. Unfortunately a man needs to come home and still eat a meal with his woman and/or family. Because of this he often has to eat double meals to avoid causing suspicion by never being hungry. The result of this is a man who is suddenly consuming an extra 300 – 500 calories per date. If you notice some weight gain without any obvious decreases in physical activity, you should be aware. Keep an eye out for any unexplained bulge.