Does your significant other get a routine bonus? Have you noticed suspicious behavior, and that this year they’ve made no mention of it? In an attempt to fund an affair, your significant other may decide to try to use the sudden windfall of cash (the annual bonus) . Keep an eye out for bonuses, or increased income from promotions that simply don’t materialize. While on its own, it’s hardly proof of something bad going on, combined with different signs of infidelity it can be a good indicator.

This is more of a sign of imminent separation than just infidelity. In preparation for running off with a new lover, some people will liquidate your assets. If you find that you have confirmed infidelity and your retirement accounts have been drained, you need to hire a lawyer and a private investigator immediately. Do this to protect yourself to ensure that you don’t lose access to the resources you’ve built up over years.