Have you gone through your lover’s phone and noticed photos of other women or men? Are there many pictures of one person sprinkled in the full  set of images? You may find pictures of your  partners secret lover on their phone.

If your spouse is cheating, they may be having very long cell phone calls. This can lead to overages. If you aren’t doing anything different, and your lover has no excuse to be using their  phone excessively, they may be talking to someone they shouldn’t be.

If your spouse is cheating, they may not want to have long phone calls. Long phone calls while at home take them away from their family time. The short calls may be quick calls to say quick “I Love You’s” or to quickly let them know that they will be online later. Be cautious if you see lots of these on the cell phone bill.

If you go through your cell phone bill and notice that your spouse’s phone calls occur for hours at a time, this is a sign of emotional cheating. Your spouse may be participating in long calls with their lover.

Is your lover suddenly always on their cell phone? Do their work calls seem to go on for hours and hours? Are they more animated and excited on their calls than they are when they are at home? Do they use hushed tones and a soft sexy voice when they are on the phone? Have they started whispering on the phone? These are signs that they are having secret conversations.

One way of hiding conversations with another person is to hide the caller ID. If you start looking through your cell phone bills and you notice that your spouse’s line has a lot of calls to a private number and from a private number, it’s likely that they are hiding something.

Your spouse might not want to let their secret lover call your home. They may opt to get a separate phone line for their conversations with their lover. If you notice a new phone but your lover hasn’t mentioned it – there might be something suspicious going on.

This is a very strong sign of cheating. If your lover guards their phone like there’s no tomorrow, they are most likely afraid that you will get their phone. Signs of this include: sleeping with a phone under their pillow at night, carrying the phone with them everywhere, keeping the phone locked, and never allowing anyone to see their phone when it rings. Be very concerned if you see this sign.

Cell phones can have pins that need to be entered in order to use the phone. If your partner suddenly added pin security to their phone, they may be trying to hide something.

This is a very strong sign of cheating. If someone calls your home or your spouse’s phone and won’t say hello until you do, they may be hiding. If there are times when people call your home and then hang up without saying a word, it’s likely that it is the secret lover of your spouse.