It’s very easy to get into routines with your spouse. You notice little things like how they dress, what they wear, jewelry, etc. Check if your spouse is still wearing their wedding band when they go to work in the morning. Not wearing a wedding band is like a billboard to tell people they they are available on the market. If you see your spouse not wearing a wedding band – they may be cheating.

If you notice bruises or scratches on your spouse, you should definitely ask. If they act strangely or extremely defensive when you ask, it may be a sign that there is something else going on. Those bruises could be from wild sex or worse, a fight with the person that they are cheating on. Keep an eye out for such types of changes to appearance.

High heels can do wonders for a woman’s look. Just by wearing high heels, her legs will suddenly gain definition, back side gets firm, and hips stick out. Is your woman suddenly strutting around in heels and skirts everywhere she goes? Let’s be clear, lots of women wear high heels. If this is her regular attire, then there’s nothing suspicious about it. However, if your woman has always shunned heels, and all of a sudden she’s wearing them everywhere, then perhaps it’s a sign that there’s something else going on. If she wasn’t too eager to do this to get your attention, but suddenly wants to wear them all the time, perhaps she’s wearing them for someone else.

Has your woman been willing to just tie her hair up and walk out the door in the past? Is she now concerned with brushing her hair constantly or getting her look “just right”? Does she have a new hairdo? Has she started getting pedicures and manicures on a regular basis? Does she now wear makeup instead of a little lip gloss? This falls right in line with the “putting your best foot forward” look. Your woman might be making sure that she looks good for a significant other or worse – just trying to look good for any potential new significant other who might just appear.

Dating someone often involves the transfer of some scents. There can be the scent of a new perfume, a new lover’s perfume, new colognes, the smell of cigarettes from a bar, the smell of alcohol, or even ( sorry to say it) but the smell of sex and sweat. Many people will often attempt to hide these new smells by practicing better hygienic practices. Don’t be surprised to find your significant other showering at the gym at lunch, showering at the gym after work, or rushing straight to the bathroom when you get home to clean up. If your mate doesn’t want to invade your personal space when they get home, but would routinely rather clean up as soon as they arrive, there may be mischief going on.

There’s always an element of trying to impress a new lover. Often people try to tap into a previously suppressed part of their personality when reaching for a new lover. Keep watch for a lover who suddenly has a new look. A new lover may be convincing them that this new look is better suited to them. It’s also a way for your cheating partner to show the new lover that they care what they think and that they are willing to change for them. If your lover has a new look that doesn’t match their original image, it might be a sign of something being amiss.

When a man is wooing a woman, it’s very common for him to take her out to eat. It’s unlikely for a woman to bring her secret lover to her home, especially if she lives with a man. If she doesn’t like with him, she may bring her secret lover home for some good home cooking. If she suddenly loses appetite all the time or starts to gain weight for no reason, perhaps she is eating with another. Since a woman is more likely to watch her weight, she may be more inclined to eat less when she is with you, or claim that she is not hungry. In some cases, she will still eat with you and risk the unexpected weight gain. Alternatively she may still eat with you buy double her exercise. So be aware if a woman gains weight for no reason. This situation is less likely to occur with women than with men.

When a man is wooing a woman, it’s very common for him to go on dates with his mistress. Most dates involve food of some kind. In some cases they may be eating out, or his new woman may be cooking good food. The old phrase still holds true: the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Therefore it’s very common for two newly romantically related people to partake in good eating. Part of this is because eating makes a person feel good. Also, what better way to justify the consumption of alcohol, than to pair it with food. Unfortunately a man needs to come home and still eat a meal with his woman and/or family. Because of this he often has to eat double meals to avoid causing suspicion by never being hungry. The result of this is a man who is suddenly consuming an extra 300 – 500 calories per date. If you notice some weight gain without any obvious decreases in physical activity, you should be aware. Keep an eye out for any unexplained bulge.

Although women need to expose more flesh to get attention, it’s different for men. Men need to attract women with signs of wealth and stability. Men will first start grooming more often. Take note of your man’s new hair style. Has he started making sure that his hair is cut on a weekly / bi-weekly basis? Has he started wearing designer clothing? Is he making sure his shirts are always pressed? Is he now wearing a flashier watch? Perhaps a chain necklace? Is he checking himself in the mirror several times before he leaves your home? Women are attracted to men who seem organized enough to maintain their own appearances; in addition to being attracted to signs of financial stability (jewelry, watches, cars, etc). Keep an eye out for your man suddenly concerned about looking better.

Very often people cheat in their daily environments. Unfortunately this often means at work, church, or school. Take note if your woman is suddenly dressing up for the most mundane of activities. Perhaps she is wearing makeup to go to the grocery store. And you also notice that the grocery store trips are taking a few hours instead of just an hour. Perhaps she starts wearing provocative outfits when going out with her friends. You should get especially concerned if she is wearing these outfits when she goes out with other people, but refuses to get dressed up to go out with you.

Women often seek attention – even if they don’t want to cheat. However attention seeking behavior can be a solid indicator that someone is looking for affection from another. The easiest way for a woman to gain attention is to dress provocatively. Be cautious if your woman has started doing this and lavishing in the attention of another.