To avoid having to spend excessive time with you, your cheating lover may suddenly take up every invitation to go out with friends. Is your lover taking regular road trips with friends? Are they suddenly taking vacations with friends and not inviting you? Are they hard to get a hold of when they are traveling? If you are having relationship problems and you see your lover taking up road trips all the time, they might be trying to get escapes from you.

If your significant other has suddenly developed a new rule: you must call them before you come by ; there might be something fishy going on. Cheaters will insist that you let them know when you are coming so they can make suer that they are never double booked. If you live with someone, this is most obvious if they want you to confirm before you return home. This also happens in the work setting, where they get upset if you drop by their office without prior warning. If they get especially angry about dropping by unannounced, you should be very concerned.

This sign is only applicable if this is a new habit that forms after suspicious behavior starts. If your lover has started taking of their wedding ring at regular intervals, they may be trying to get the skin under the finger to stop looking like it sits under a ring. This is a common tactic to make the ring finger look like a normal finger when they take the ring off. Be cautious if your shady lover has developed this new habit.

Has your lover suddenly become forgetful? Are they now having trouble finding their wedding ring? Cheaters often have to hide the fact that they wear a wedding ring. What better way to justify not wearing their wedding ring than constantly losing their ring. If your lover keeps forgetting where they put the ring, it might be because they don’t want to have to wear it.

If you wear a wedding ring constantly, you will ultimately develop a tan line around your ring finger. If your lover’s ring finger starts to lose its tan, it may be because the skin under the ring is now getting extra sunlight on a regular basis. If you notice that they are always wearing the wedding ring around you yet the tan line has vanished – there might be something strange going on.

Have you noticed that your lover comes home without their wedding ring on? Once a cheater gets into the habit of not wearing a wedding ring, they may often store it in routine places. For example, you should be suspicious if you start seeing their wedding ring lying in the ash tray of your car or in the arm rest. If they are now in the habit of taking it off frequently, they may be taking it off when they are around their new lover.

Do you call you lover at work, but lately can’t locate them? Does the secretary hesitate to tell you where your significant other is? Your lover might claim that they are always busy, but keep in mind that being out of communication in an office is generally not a positive thing. Also, be very wary if you call at random times but can never reach your significant other. Also be concerned if they refuse to give you their direct line.

Was your lover the type of person who loved having the latest and greatest ring tone? Have they suddenly decided that they prefer their ringer not to go off? Have they made it so silent that it doesn’t even vibrate? This is another way to avoid undue attention to the calls a cheater is receiving. By keeping the phone on silent, you won’t notice that they are receiving calls. The flip side of this is that when you call them, you may find that they often don’t pick up immediately. It’s likely that they will call you back a few minutes after you’ve called because they have kept the phone on silent. This works both ways, with your main lover and with the person that you are cheating with. If your significant other has suddenly decided that they don’t like having a ringer on their cell phone, maybe something else is going on.

Your lover might be avoiding receiving calls from their secret lover when you are around. Also, as an affair intensifies, the other lover may start insisting on getting more of your lover’s time. It’s common for a cheater to turn their phone off so they don’t have to receive calls from the lover that they aren’t with at the moment. If you notice your lover suddenly keeping their phone off, they may be avoiding having to answer the phone in your presence.

Cheating lovers need ways to purchase gifts for their lovers. The receipts and deliveries need to come somewhere. Some may choose to have things sent to work, but others will just get a PO box and have their things sent there. Keep in mind that going to a PO box is actually an inconvenience vs. bringing things straight to your home. If your lover suddenly has a PO box and you aren’t allowed to use it there might be something fishy going on.