If your spouse travels for business – it’s normal for you to know where they are traveling to. Often they will be traveling between two cities where their company has an office. For example, between the NY office and the LA office. However, if your company has no such offices, and your spouse doesn’t have clients in certain cities, but they are always traveling to those same destinations there may be something suspicious going on. Also – if they can’t explain why they are going or the trips have erratic dates (such as weekend trips), they may be traveling to cheat on you.

If your spouse travels a lot, you are used to reaching them at different locations. Most likely, you have called them at the hotel they are staying in. It’s normal for a spouse to let the other spouse know what hotel they are staying in. Do you find that it’s difficult to reach your significant other when they are on business? Do they only answer their cell phone, but never seem to answer from their room? They could be avoiding taking calls in their room because they are not in their hotel room. Alternatively, someone might be in their room with them, and they don’t want to be disturbed. Either way, this is suspicious behavior.

Normally people  use credit cards when they take business trips. If your significant other suddenly wants to pay cash for everything on their business trips – they may be trying to hide what they are spending their money on.

This is another sign that there’s something going on. Don’t allow your spouse to use the excuse of being busy to be out of reach while traveling. After all, the office will need to be able to reach them when they are on a business trip.

This is a sign that they may not be staying alone in their hotel room. Even though business trips often include after hour activities, you should be able to reach your spouse in their hotel room. No matter what your spouse says, if they are constantly unavailable in their hotel room – there is something suspicious going on.

Does your spouse refuse to let you know where they are staying when they are on business? Do they call you but claim to have no contact number there? They may not want you to be able to locate them when they are “out of town”. Also, they may be pretending to go out of town and actually be right in town having an affair.

Does your spouse travel a lot? Frequent travel makes it very easy to get free plane tickets. How do you know if their business trips are legitimate? If you notice an increase in the frequency of their trips and an increase in the vagueness of the explanations for the trips, it might mean that they are definitely getting up to some mischief.

Does your spouse travel for business? Have they started traveling for business but they haven’t been promoted? Are they traveling to Vegas for work but they don’t have an account in Vegas? Are they traveling to cities where their company doesn’t have offices? If you see your spouse traveling without any justification, they may be maintaining an affair.